She was the youngest child of Lieutenant-General Nikolai Fyodorovich Golitsyn and Princess Praskovia Ivanovna Shuvalova. She had two brothers: Fyodor and Ivan. Varvara's father was from the House of Golitsyn. Her mother, Praskovia Ivanovna, was a sister of Ivan Shuvalov, whom she inherited tendency to literature and art. Varvara grew up on the Petrovsky estate in the Moscow province. Her mother was mild, kind, although indecisive character, who loved art and valued education. In 1777, Varvara moved with her parents to Saint Petersburg. After the death of her father, she moved with her mother to the house of her uncle, Ivan Shuvalov, on the corner of Nevsky Prospekt and Malaya Sadovaya. Varvara was fond of painting and music. She participated in concerts of Tsarskoe Selo and the Winter Palace, where she sang songs of his own composition. In 1783, she was appointed a maid of honor at the court of Catherine the Great.
Marriage
At the court, Varvara met a handsome Count Nikolai Nikolayevich Golovin, a grandson of Generalissimo Field Marshal Count Fyodor Alexeyevich Golovin. They liked each other, but Princess Golitsyna opposed an immediate marriage, finding it premature. Golitsyna went on four years of foreign travel, spending much of her time in Paris, but his acquaintances and connections there had nothing to do with literature or the arts. Upon returning from a trip, Varvara married Count Golovin, on 4 October 1786. The wedding was celebrated at the Winter Palace. The Golovins were very fond of each other, and gave the impression of a happy couple. Descriptions of Nikolai Golovin by his contemporaries were controversial, most of them unfriendly. Promoted to the rank of colonel, he felt no inclination to any military or the civil service, but his strict honesty was noted. In 1796, Nikolai Golovin was appointed to the court of Grand DukeAlexander Pavlovich.
Conversion and later life
At the same time, the Countess Golovin became closer to the French emigrant Princess de Tarant and under her influence, converted to Roman Catholicism. In 1802, Varvara Golovina went to Paris for several years, returning to Russia in 1805. A few months later the Countess Golovin with his family followed her. In Paris, they were accepted in the high society of Château de Saint-Germain-en-Laye, but the beginning of the Napoleonic wars forced them to return to Russia. With scarce resources, Golovina accepted the Tarant's offer and moved to her home. The two friends were inseparable till the Princess's death in 1814. Thanks to the efforts of her husband, on April 9, 1816 Countess Golovin was granted in chevalier's ladies of the Order of St. Catherine, and her younger daughter as the maid of honor. Golovina was close friends with Louise of Baden, later Empress Elizabeth, who was deeply unhappy in Russia. In her memoirs, written with the direction of the empress, she described the life at the courts of Catherine the Great and Paul I. In 1818, for health reasons she made her second trip to France. Returning briefly to Russia in 1820, she again come back to France. She returned to Paris and died there in 1821, and was buried at the Père Lachaise Cemetery. Her memoirs were later published in France.
Children
In marriage, Varvara had four children:
Son
Praskovia Nikolayevna, author of "Memories", converted to Catholicism, since 1819 the wife of Count Jan-Maximilian Fredro.
Daughter
Yelizaveta Nikolayevna — maid of honor, converted to Catholicism, married to diplomat Lev Pototsky, or Potocki.
