Kathigasu was born to Joseph Daly, an Irish-Eurasian planter, and Beatrice Matilda Daly, a French-Eurasian midwife, on 3 September 1899 in Medan, Sumatra, Dutch East Indies. Her paternal grandparents were an Irishman and a Eurasian woman while her maternal grandparents were a Frenchman named Pierre Louie Martin and a Eurasian woman named Evelyn Adeline Martin née Morrett. She was the fifth child and the only girl. She was trained as a nurse and midwife and spoke Cantonese fluently.
Marriage and family
While she was practising nursing and midwifery at the Kuala Lumpur General Hospital, Sybil first met Dr. Arumugam Kanapathi Pillay, a second generationMalaysian Indian, born on 17 June 1892 in Taiping to Kanapathi Pillay and Thangam, immigrants of Sri Lankan Tamil origin. Initially there had been objection from her parents due to their religious differences: him being a Hindu while Sybil was a Catholic. However, with agreement from his father, he became a Catholic and was renamed as Abdon Clement Kathigasu. Their wedding took place in St. John's Church in Bukit Nanas, Kuala Lumpur on 7 January 1919. Sybil's first child was a son born on 26 August 1919, but due to major problems at birth, died after only 19 hours. He was named Michael after Sybil's elder brother, who was born in Taiping on 12 November 1892 and was killed in Gallipoli on 10 July 1915 as a member of the British Army. The devastating blow of baby Michael's death led to Sybil's mother suggesting that a young boy, William Pillay, born 25 October 1918, who she had delivered and had remained staying with them at their Pudu house, should be adopted by Sybil and her husband. Then a daughter, Olga, was born to Sybil in Pekeliling, Kuala Lumpur, on 26 February 1921. The earlier sudden death of baby Michael made Olga a very special baby to Sybil, when she was born without problems. So when Sybil returned to Ipoh on 7 April 1921, it was not only with Olga, but also with William and her mother who had agreed to stay in Ipoh with the family. A second daughter, Dawn, was born in Ipoh on 21 September 1936. Their children are:
William Pillay, adopted
Michael Kathigasu, died after only 19 hours of being born
Dawn Kathigasu, married William Bruce Spalding in London on 1 September 1956 and later have children with him. No further information available, alleged suicide
She and her husband, Dr. Kathigasu, operated a clinic at No. 141, Brewster Road in Ipoh from 1926 until the Japanese invasion of Malaya. The family escaped to the nearby town of Papan days before Japanese forces occupied Ipoh. The local Chinese community fondly remembered her husband, who was given the Hakka nickname "You Loy-De".
Freedom fighter
Residing at No. 74, Main Street in Papan, the Kathigasus secretly kept shortwave radio sets and listened to BBC broadcasts. They quietly supplied medicines, medical services and information to the resistance forces until they were arrested in 1943. Despite being interrogated and tortured by the Japanese military police, Sybil persisted in her efforts and was thrown in Batu Gajah jail. After Malaya was liberated from the Japanese in August 1945, Sybil was flown to Britain for medical treatment. There, she began writing her memoirs. Sybil received the George Medal for Gallantry several months before her death on 12 June 1948.
Death and memorial
Sybil died on 12 June 1948 aged 48 in Britain and her body was buried in Lanark, Scotland. Her body was later returned in 1949 to Ipoh and reburied at the Roman Catholic cemetery beside St. Michael's Church opposite the Main Convent of the Holy Infant Jesus on Brewster Road in Ipoh. A road Jalan Sybil Kathigasu in Fair Park, Ipoh was named after Sybil, after independence to commemorate her bravery. Today, the shop house at No. 74, Main Road, Papan, serves as a memorial to Sybil and her efforts.
Published works
No Dram of Mercy
Faces of Courage: A Revealing Historical Appreciation of Colonial Malaya's Legendary Kathigasu Family by Norma Miraflor & Ian Ward
In 2010, a 10-part miniseries drama based on her life was produced by Malaysian satellite television company Astro and Red Communications titled Apa Dosaku?. Sybil's role was played by model and actress Elaine Daly, who also happens to be Sybil's grandniece.
In 2016, Google Malaysia commemorated her 117th birthday with a special Doodle; depicting her in her former Papan residence.