Ernestine Hester Maude Bowes-Lyon was born at Glamis Castle in Scotland, one of five children; her father Ernest Bowes-Lyon died ten days after her birth, two days after Christmas, in a riding accident. He was a diplomat serving as a Consul in Belgrade. Her mother was a Drummond, of the family of Drummonds Bank. She grew up at Glamis Castle along with her younger cousin Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon, the futureQueen Elizabeth the Queen Mother, and learnt to drive a coach and four down Glamis drive. During her early years she met and learned from poets, writers, philosophers, and other intelligentsia. Writer P. G. Wodehouse, in particular, remained a friend and correspondent until his death; one of his last letters written was to her. Wodehouse dedicated his book The Pothunters to Ernestine Bowes-Lyon. In 1910, she married Francis Winstone Scott, and had two sons. They were divorced in 1918. Her second marriage was to Ronald Grant de Longueuil, 10th Baron de Longueuil, whom she first met at the Christmas Ball of the Tate family, in December 1913. Their elopement was the cause of some scandal. She accompanied him to the Western Front, where she worked as a nursing assistant. They were reunited after the declaration of the Armistice. He, war-weary and uncertain of his future, asked her to return to her family. In protest at this, she shot herself in the chest with a revolver, but survived with the bullet lodged by her heart. In hospital she informed him that she was pregnant. Ronald and Ernestine moved to the chateau of Sus, near Navarrenx in the south west of France. Raoul Charles was born in 1919, and Raymond de Longueuil in 1921. Raoul became a naval aviator, and was killed over the North Sea in 1942 in pursuit of the Nazi Tirpitz Battleship. Raymond, the second born, inherited the title Baron de Longueuil. She enjoyed outdoor life as well as high society, knew her flowers and the stars, and sketched and painted in watercolour; in 1970 she had her own exhibition in France and was reviewed in a number of local papers. She told stories to her grandson Michael Grant about Glamis castle being haunted and her experiences there. She led quite a social life between Navarrenx and Pau, and with her husband travelled widely in Europe, especially Switzerland. She drove up until she was 85; usually a big Citroen DS classic. She had her hip replaced in 1976 and was swimming in the river six months later. In fact, she had been swimming in the local river up to six months before she died. The bullet lodged in her heart remained there for over 60 years until her death at age 89/90 at Navarrenx. Her great granddaughter is the actress and adventurer Rachel Grant de Longueuil, best known for her role as Bond girl Peaceful in the James Bond filmDie Another Day.
