Abraham J. Twerski
Abraham Joshua Twerski is an American Hasidic rabbi, a scion of the Chernobyl Hasidic dynasty, and a psychiatrist specializing in substance abuse.
Early life
Twerski was born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. He is a son of Grand Rebbe Jacob Israel Twerski, originally from Hornosteipel, Ukraine, and Dvorah Leah Twerski.He was educated in Milwaukee public schools, and graduated from North Division High School in 1948. He then enrolled in the Hebrew Theological College of Chicago and was ordained a rabbi in 1951. In 1953 Twerski enrolled at Milwaukee's Marquette University, and subsequently graduated from its medical school in 1960, after which he moved to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.
Career
Medicine
Twerski's medical career includes Gateway Rehabilitation Center, Pittsburgh, which he founded and serves as medical director emeritus, clinical director of the Department of Psychiatry at St. Francis Hospital in Pittsburgh, associate professor of psychiatryat the University of Pittsburgh's School of Medicine, and founder of the Shaar Hatikvah rehabilitation center for prisoners in Israel.
Rabbinic career
In his rabbinic career Twerski is a prolific writer of Jewish books and of shiurim.He was co-spiritual leader of with his father from ordination until 1959. During this time he composed a melody for the Hebrew verse Psalms 28:9 "Hoshea es Amecha", which became popular in Jewish circles. Twerski had a major influence on the turn toward orthodoxy of numerous young men and women in Milwaukee, including Meir Tzvi Schuster, who later moved to Israel and founded the Heritage House in Jerusalem.
Twerski on Twelve Steps and Jewish ethics
Twerski's clinical career specializes in addiction and much of his popular writing concerns self-improvement and ethical behavior. He merges the Mussar Jewish ethics and morality movement with the Twelve-Step Program and with ideas from clinical psychology.Andrew Heinze explains Twerski's attraction to the Twelve Steps this way:
The significance of the religious dynamic in Alcoholics Anonymous was captured in Abraham Twerski's comment that he discovered in AA meetings the kind of sincere and even selfless fellow-feeling that was often absent from synagogues. He was moved by the example of men and women who would willingly be awakened in the middle of the night to go out and help a fellow alcoholic. Recovering alcoholics, Twerski observed, "will often exhibit a sense of responsibility far superior to that of the non-alcoholic in relationship to their families, friends, and God."
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He was attracted as well by the pragmatism of the Twelve Steps.... he AA system offered a practical non-analytic therapy that resonated with traditional Judaism much more than conventional psychoanalysis did. In treating addicts, Twerski discovered limitations of the psychoanalytic emphasis on understanding the origins of one's behavior. Patients would continue to drink while they inquired with their therapists into the possible reasons for their drinking. The Twelve Step program took the opposite approach, demanding that the person start his or her transformation by stopping the bad behavior. "There is an important similarity between the Torah approach to behavior and the Twelve Step program approach," Twerski realized.
One does not enter into a discussion or argument with the yetzer hara. Whatever reasons you can propose for one position, the yetzer hara will give several logical reasons to the contrary....
Heinze gives the following example of how Twerski introduced Twelve Steps, a movement with Christian origins, to the Jewish audience, which according to Heinze perceived alcohol addiction as a non-Jewish problem:
....Twerski cleverly presents the theme of alcoholism not as a modern American phenomenon but rather as part-and-parcel of rabbinic discourse. He refers to Rabbi Chaim Shmulevitz, who cites Midrash Tanhuma on the drunken man whose family escorts him to witness an obviously drunk and degraded man. To his family's dismay, he bends over the fallen man and whispers in his ear, "My good man, where did you get such fine wine?" To those who would claim that the problem of addictive behavior is secondary or even peripheral to the observant Jew, Twerski answers, "one cannot consider oneself to be truly observant if one neglects mussar." And for Twerski mussar entails dealing with "the psychological mechanism of denial can blind a person to even the most obvious self-destructive behavior."
Twerski's reinterpretation of mussar "depends fundamentally on psychological categories in spite of his rejection of psychoanalysis as a therapeutic tool." Heinze writes:
Much as it is impossible for a psychologist to ignore or overlook obvious psychological problems, so Twerski's training in the biochemistry of the brain inevitably led him to abandon the strict and often austere moral economy of traditional mussar. He cannot simply exhort, in the ancestral way, about human laziness. If a person seems incapacitated by depression, Twerski must investigate the possibility of a biochemical problem before resorting to the conventional prescription of mussar---the performance of mitzvot.
And further:
"In my earlier days of doing psychotherapy, treating persons with a negative self-image was most distressing," recalled---"I would become angry because it seemed to me that the patient preferred to wallow in the mire of his fantasied worthlessness...."... "The trick in therapy," he concluded, using the English equivalent of the word mussar employed to describe both the evil urge and methods to defeat it, "is to remove the distortion" of view that hindered psychological and moral growth. Starting out with an old-fashioned moralism that emphasized the stubborn will as chief stumbling block to self-improvement, Twerski ended up with the premise that psychological blocks were essentially involuntary and therefore tantamount to physical disabilities, albeit ones subject to remedy.
Personal life
He married his first wife Golda before settling in Milwaukee. The couple had four children, Izhak Meir, Ben Zion, Sholomo, and Sarah. In the late 1990s, following Golda’s death, Twerski married Dr. Gail Bessler, PhD.His brothers are Aaron Twerski, the Irwin and Jill Cohen Professor of Law at Brooklyn Law School, as well as a former Dean and professor of tort law at Hofstra University Law School; Rabbi Michel Twerski, the Hornosteipler Rebbe of Milwaukee; the late Shloime Twerski, the previous Hornosteipler Rebbe of Denver; and the late Mordechai Dov Ber Twerski of New York.
Works
He has written over 60 books on Judaism and self-help topics, including several books with Charles M. Schulz's Peanuts comic strips used to illustrate human interaction and behavior.- Addictive Thinking and the Addictive Personality: two books in one, with Craig Nakken
- Addictive Thinking: Why Do We Lie to Ourselves? : Why Do Others Believe Us?
- Addictive Thinking: Understanding Self-deception, with foreword by John Wallace
- Alive! : A 10-step Guide to a Vibrant life, with Mordechai Weinberger
- Angels Don't Leave Footprints: Discovering What's Right With Yourself
- Caution: "Kindness" Can Be Dangerous to the Alcoholic
- The Clergy and Chemical Dependency
- Compulsive Gambling: More Than Dreidel
- Coping With Stress: The 9/11 Generation
- Dear Rabbi, Dear Doctor: The Renowned Rabbi-Psychiatrist Gives Straight Answers to Tough Questions
- Dear Rabbi, Dear Doctor Volume 2: The Renowned Rabbi-Psychiatrist Gives Straight Answers to Tough Questions
- Dearer Than Life: Making Your Life More Meaningful
- Do Unto Others: How Good Deeds Can Change Your Life
- Effective Living : An Upbeat and Uplifting Life Can be Yours
- The Enemy Within: Confronting your Challenges in the 21st Century
- The First Year of Marriage: Enhancing the Success of Your Marriage Right from the Start—and Even Before it Begins
- Forgiveness : Don't Let Resentment Keep You Captive
- A Formula for Proper Living : Practical Lessons from Life and Torah
- Four Chassidic Masters: the Heart, the Mind, the Eye, and the Tongue—History, Stories, Teachings
- From Bondage to Freedom : the Passover Haggadah with a Commentary Illuminating the Liberation of the Spirit, with Hirsh Michel Chinn and Benzion Twerski
- From Pulpit to Couch
- Generation to Generation: Personal Recollections of a Chassidic Legacy
- Getting Up When You're Down: A Mature Discussion of an Adult Malady - Depression and Related Conditions
- Gevurah : My Life, Our World, and the Adventure of Reaching 80,
- Growing Each Day
- Happiness and the Human Spirit: The Spirituality of Becoming the Best You Can Be
- Healing from Despair : Choosing Wholeness in a Broken World, with Elie Kaplan Spitz and Erica Shapiro Taylor
- I Am I: a Jewish Perspective From the Case Files of an Eminent Psychiatrist
- I'd Like to Call for Help, but I Don't Know the Number: The Search for Spirituality in Everyday Life
- I Didn't Ask to Be in This Family: Sibling Relationships and How They Shape Adult Behavior and Relationships, with Charles M. Schulz
- I Didn't Ask to Be in This Family: Sibling Relationships and How They Shape Adult Relationships
- In-Laws: It's All Relative, with Leah Shifrin Averick
- I've Gotta Get Out of My Way! : Eliminating the Obstacles to Success
- It Happens to Doctors, Too
- It's Not As Tough As You Think: How to Smooth Out Life's Bumps
- It's Not As Tough At Home As You Think: Making Family Life at Home Smoother and Better
- Let Us Make Man: Self-esteem Through Jewishness
- Letters to my Children
- Life's Blessings : The Meaning and Significance of our Berachos
- Life's Too Short: Pull the Plug on Self-defeating Behavior and Turn On the Power of Self-esteem
- Light At the End of the Tunnel: An Inspirational Story Fiction.
- Lights Along the Way: Timeless Lessons for Today from Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto's Mesillas Yesharim
- Like Yourself: And Others Will, Too
- Living Each Day
- Living Each Week
- Messages From The Mishnah
- Not Just Stories: The Chassidic Spirit Through Its Classic Stories
- Overcoming Burnout: Recognizing, Addressing and Preventing Burnout - in Yeshivah, the Workplace, and Beyond, with Alon Gul
- Positive Parenting: Developing Your Child's Potential, with Ursula Verena Schwartz
- A Practical Guide to Rabbinic Counseling, with Yisrael N Levitz
- Prayerfully Yours: Creating the Bond Between Man and His Maker
- The Problem Was Me : How to End Negative Self-talk and Take Your Life to a New Level, with Thomas Gagliano
- The Rabbi & the Nuns : The Inside Story of a Rabbi's Therapeutic Work With the Sisters of St. Francis,
- Rebbes and Chassidim: What They Said - What They Meant
- Recognizing a Loved One's Addiction, and Providing Help
- Seek Sobriety, Find Serenity: Thoughts for Every Day
- Seize the Moments: Captivating Nuggets of Torah Wisdom
- Self-Discovery in Recovery
- Self-improvement? I'm Jewish! : Overcoming Self-defeating Behavior
- The Shabbos Companion: Customs, Prayers, Stories, Zemiros : Shabbos Day
- The Shabbos Companion: Customs, Prayers, Stories, Zemiros : Shabbos Eve
- The Shame Borne in Silence: Spouse Abuse in the Jewish Community
- Simchah: It's Not Just Happiness
- Smiling Each Day
- The Spiritual Self: Reflections on Recovery and God
- Stepping Out of the Abyss : a Jewish Guide to the 12 Steps, Menachem Poznanski, Aryeh Buchsbayew, and Abraham J Twerski
- Substance-Abusing High Achievers: Addiction as an Equal Opportunity Destroyer
- Successful Relationships at Home, at Work and with Friends: Bringing Control Issues under Control
- The Sun will Shine Again : Coping, Persevering, and Winning in Troubled Economic Times
- A Taste of Nostalgia : Tales and Recipes to Nourish Body and Soul, with Judi Dick
- Ten Steps To Being Your Best: a Practical Handbook to Enhance Your Life in Every Way
- Teshuvah Through Recovery : Experience the Transformative Power of the Twelve Steps
- That's Not a Fault...It's a Character Trait
- The Thin You Within You: Winning the Weight Game with Self-Esteem
- Twerski on Chumash
- Twerski on Machzor : Rosh Hashanah
- Twerski on Machzor : Yom Kippur
- Twerski on Prayer: Creating the Bond Between Man and His Maker, a re-issue of Prayerfully Yours
- Twerski On Spirituality
- Visions of the Fathers Pirkei Avos
- Waking Up Just In Time : A Therapist Shows How to Use The Twelve-Steps Approach to Life's Ups And Downs, with Charles M. Schulz
- When Do the Good Things Start?, with Charles M. Schulz
- Who Says You're Neurotic: How to Avoid Mistaken Psychiatric Diagnoses When the Problem May Be a Physical Condition
- Wisdom Each Day
- Without a Job, Who Am I?: Rebuilding Your Self When You've Lost Your Job, Home, or Life Savings
- The Zeide Reb Motele: The Life of the Tzaddik R'Mordechai Dov of Hornosteipel